She’s the Boss: Tia Chestang-Beville

Tia Chestang-Beville

At SCDD, we believe true beauty starts within, and following your dreams is always in style!  So talking with Tia-Chestang-Beville (owner of Purify Wellness & Spa )was a no-brainer.  Nestled off Highway 280, the spa offers a pampering environment to escape the daily grind.  It also represents owner-operator Chestang-Beville’s desire to fulfill a personal dream of pursuing entrepreneurship and promoting a holistic approach to health and wellness.  Purify Wellness & Spa invites its clients to relax, refresh and rejuvenate with services that include beauty, massage and detoxification treatments.

Her inspiration: What really inspired me to start my own business was I noticed that so many African-Americans have a hard time finding a job, or even an opportunity. I wanted to be my own boss and call my own shots.

Wake-up call: Before I [became an entrepreneur] I worked in the banking industry.  One day I woke up and realized this was not what I had come to Birmingham for.  I turned in my two week’s notice and started a physical therapy program [within several months].  While working as a physical therapist I realized many of my patients had issues with [digestive complaints].  And I had learned personally the benefits of proper nutrition.  Purify was born of that.

Would she ever return to banking? Never, ever!  If push came to shove, I’d [return] to physical therapy. It’s just as rewarding.  But I’d work as an [independent contractor].  I’ll never go back to being fully employed by someone else.  It’s not all glitz and glamour, but I’ve gotten a taste of the American dream and I’ll never go back.

SCDD took a guided tour of the spa during the interview and learned about the colon hydrotherapy services Purify administers.  Purify Wellness & Spa currently uses the “open,” or Libby System exclusively, in which the client controls the session.

Ms. Chestang-Beville was careful to make the distinction that the spa services clients, not patients, as she is practicing under a certification and not a license. “I am at the beginning stages of colon hydrotherapy (CHT),” she notes.  “I’ve completed pre-requisites in gross anatomy, physiology, plus 100 hours and 50 sessions in colon hydrotherapy.  I’ll go to Atlanta to move to the intermediate level and received training on the closed system.  The closed system is a little more invasive and requires a therapist to be present at all times.”

The Libby System tables are scrupulously clean, and the room itself is soothing. We observed as Ms. Chestang-Beville personally sterilized and prepared the session room for her next client and found out there is even an automatic “kill switch” which allows the client to control the apparatus’ valves to his or her comfort. 

“Everything is sterile and disposable,” Ms. Chestang-Beville says.  “Nothing is recycled.  All supplies are carefully laid out each time for each client.”

What has been the most surprising part of the process for her?

“Initially I had tons of support from friends and family encouraging me to follow my dreams and go forward, ” she says.  “The most surprising part is I never thought I could actually do it, and manage it the way I’ve been able to. [Ms. Chestang-Beville talked to us while running the front desk,  interacting with a steady stream of clients, and scheduling sessions.  She even planned her recent wedding while running the business.]  The [Highway 280] area loves us and has been very welcoming. The support has been great.”

Purify is now offering  a spa membership program and Chestang-Beville has plans to further expand her services.  Ready to check out Purify Wellness & Spa for yourself?  December is a great time to relax, relate and release, as they are offering a 12 Days of Christmas special as well as promotions via Facebook!

Image courtesy of Tia Chestang-Beville

We Love a Man Who…

No. Just....no.

…keeps it simple. 

Are you wearing square-toed shoes?  Buttoning every button on your suit jacket?  Stepping out in a suit jacket with more than three buttons (SIGH)?  Rocking suspenders AND a belt (ahem: it’s either/or, never both)?   Sporting more than one ring on both hands (and if either of them is a nugget ring, go sit in the corner)? Do you have nails (finger or toe)so long that your nickname is Shredder? Are you rocking a suit so small that it looks like you stole it from Webster? Then you, sir, are doing the most.  Take it down a notch.

Take it from us: dress your age, not your shoe size.  For the love of God, manscape.   The Grizzly Adams/unwashed look is not the  business; go “occupy” a bathtub and get thee a manicure and pedicure! And the hipster look is not for every physique.   

Remember: less is sometimes much, much more.

You’re welcome.

Red Haute

Brrrr! Baby, it’s cold outside…but crimson clothing and accessories are heating up this winter, according to a recent fashion forecast by The Birmingham News’ Chanda Temple.  I’ve been wearing red since I was a baby, and have become notorious in my family for busting out a red dress for formal occasions.  I’m currently in love with Plenty by Tracy Reese’s crimson lace cocktail dress at BHLDN…it’s “vintage sophisticate” done right.

Party season is almost upon us, so why not pick out something in the showstopping shade?  But consider yourself warned: put on your red dress, red stilettos, red lipstick, red jewelry and carry a red bag and people will be saying “My, my, my!” for all the wrong reasons.  So tone it down with a nude lip or a neutral shoe.

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You’re Never Fully Dressed Without….

Fragrance!   I feel naked unless I’m wearing my signature scent.  And as Coco Chanel once said, “A women who doesn’t wear perfume has no future.”   But it isn’t as simple as picking up Beyonce’s Pulse.  (We’re not too keen on celebrity scents; who wants to smell like Khloe Kardashian or Lamar Odom combined? No thanks.)  Fragrance is very personal.  The very memory of one’s cologne or perfume can trigger powerful memories for a family member or loved one (or even a former loved one) years later.    

Want to smell like a lotus flower and not a bomb?  Remember that fragrances work in conjunction with your own body chemistry, so what works for Halle Berry or your homegirl may not work for you.   And there is as much an art to wearing it as there is to producing a scent.   Don’t bathe in it.  Be mindful of where you plan to wear it: loud fragrances are a fail.   And don’t rub your wrists together after spraying it on; you will crush the fragrance’s notes and could alter the scent. 

Are you still wearing Hai Karate, Tabu, Tommy Girl or Charlie?  I used to love my Love’s Baby Soft and Jessica McClintock, but as I grew up they no longer fit with the young woman I was becoming.   While I believe in staying with a perfume or cologne that works, I also believe in being open to trying something new.  And there are so many great ones to try,  in sprays, solids or oils…from CREED to Coach’s Poppy!  Why not have a different “smell good” to suit the temperature, occasion or your mood?

Excuse Us.

Iron Bowl Cocktails & Couture

We’re a little (okay, a LOT) biased at SCDD, but we fully appreciate that all bets are off during the Iron Bowl. So whether you’re heading out for celebratory cocktails after the game, or just need one to console yourself after the final score, here are our picks for what to sip (courtesy of Birmingham’s own Bottega Cafe). Enjoy. (Oh – and these super cute gameday/cocktail dresses are by Judith March).

Roll Tide!

Roll Tide Roll (Also known as a Scarlett O’Hara)

Ingredients: 1 jigger Southern Comfort Juice of 1/2 lime 1/2 jigger cranberry juice Lime slices for garnish

Preparation: Pour the Southern Comfort, lime juice and cranberry juice into a shaker with cracked ice, and shake well. Strain into a sour glass.

War Eagle!

Wayne’s Orange Thing (Created by Wayne Russell)

Ingredients: 2 cups ice cubes 1/4 cup vodka 2 tablespoons orange liqueur 1/4 cup fresh orange juice Orange slices for garnish

Preparation: Combine first 4 ingredients in a martini shaker. Cover with lid, and shake until thoroughly chilled. Remove lid, and strain into a chilled martini glass. Serve immediately. Garnish, if desired. Note: For testing purposes only, Grand Marnier was used for orange liqueur.

Images courtesy of Judith March

First Person Fabulous: Southern University Dancing Doll Meagan Callier

Meagan A. Callier

The Iron Bowl isn’t the only grudge match this weekend.  On Saturday, the Southern University Jaguars will face off against the Grambling University Tigers in the granddaddy of all classics,” the 38th Annual State Farm Bayou Classic in New Orleans.  SCDD spoke with Dancing Doll Meagan Callier as she prepared for her final Bayou Classic performance with the Southern University Human Jukebox.  This is one busy young lady: she spoke to us on her last day of classes, between step show and dance line practice!  Miss Callier, 21, is a Mobile native and is the daughter of Karen and Mark Hansberry and Francis Callier.  The Mass Communications major  and new Delta plans to attend both graduate and law school after graduation.

Balance is key:  I work really hard at each individual thing.  I never stop.  And I pray a lot for strength and I just keep going. But I love it: I love school, I love dance and I love my sorority so it’s not a problem to put forth that effort.

Advice to her younger self?  I was so stuck on coming to college and being independent that I hurt myself [when it came to] picking a class or a major.  I would tell myself that it’s okay to ask [my parents and advisors] questions, that I don’t know everything.

Personal style: I would say [my style is] funky. Not weird, but I don’t really follow trends.   I wear what I feel, or what I think looks good.   I’ve definitely seen the stores I’ve shop in change since I started college.  Forever 21 was my favorite.  But I [shop more] in boutiques now. Instead of picking up a club dress I pick up a button down because I’ll get more use out of it.  I like how the rest of the world looks at a Black female dressed in business casual.  (Meagan named a “sultry but classy” BCBG dress and a particular wedge boot at Bakers as two items she has her eye on.)

She Gets it from her Mama: [My mother taught me] that less is more. You don’t have to wear red shoes, a red hat, and a red shirt.  And you don’t have to be naked to look womanly or sexy.  My mom has a really feminine, classy sense of style.

So Over It: [For women] I wish that the shaved head trend – where you shave your head and dye it – would go away. I hate it…it’s going around on my campus.  The long feather earring trend, hate it.  For men? Sagging pants.

Behind the scenes: It’s a lot of hard work.  People really don’t understand the time and dedication that we put into the dances, the makeup, the hair.  We get our costumes together.  We don’t have a sponsor.  We practice every day from four until.  It’s really like a job. But the finished product is what we love and we like for people to think that it’s effortless.  [People would be surprised to know] we get really nervous before we perform.  Every girl has those jitters.  People think we’ve been doing it so long and we’re technically trained [so it’s easy], but the nerves before performance are ridiculous.  We pray before every performance – can’t perform without it- [or] the nerves will get the best of us.

What she’s going to miss most about the Dancing Dolls:  The friendships.  The laughs we share.  [No matter what type of day I’ve had] I can come to practice and I’m guaranteed a laugh.  Someone will uplift my spirits.  We laugh so much; we’re really a close squad.  My captain Kayla Smith, I love her to death.  I’ve never  had a sister but [we are that close].  I’m really going to miss her. 

Going out with a bang at the 2011 Bayou Classic:  I am anxious and nervous and sad all in one because I know it’s the end.  I’m going to miss my squad; I love them like my sisters [and] it’s going to be hard to let go.  But I’m ready.  I’ve danced all my life and I’m ready to discover a new world outside of dance.  I’m excited.  Looking back on it, I’m pleased with the decision I made to come to Southern.  I left my family and my friends and I’m on my own; coming here developed me as a young woman.  It went by too fast!

Images courtesy of Meagan A. Callier

The Look for Less: Alexander McQueen Knuckle Clutch

$2095? Not in this lifetime.

I have died a thousand times over Alexander McQueen’s absolutely fabulous knuckle clutches, but these beauties run upwards of $1000.  So I was overjoyed to find that SCDD’s “friend in the head” DIY blogger Kirsten of Studs and Pearls has designed an inexpensive but super chic version  I can create for the low.

Image courtesy of AlexanderMcQueen.com

Sister Act: Beyonce & Solange Knowles

Fashionable sisters Beyonce and Solange Knowles were recently named to Vogue Magazine’s 2011 Best Dressed List.  The duo, who just hit up New York Fashion Week’s Spring 2012 shows, are known for their edgy, distinctive style.  Solange, who is a dj, mommy to Julez and one of the faces of Carol’s Daughter, wows in her her Prabal Gurung for J. Crew ensemble.  And soon-to-be mommy and singer/actress/designer/fragrance creator Beyonce is a quick change artist in beige sequins, then a beige leather and tulle ruffled mini.  Flawless hair and makeup for both complete the looks.

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This is a No.

Learn from my mistakes!

Kristen Stewart hit the Breaking Dawn premiere in an embellished Roberto Cavalli gown and Jimmy Choo peep toes…then changed into a pair of Nike sneakers.  And from the looks of it, she’s a repeat offender.   Listen, if you’re going to wear the shoe, commit to it.  The evening gown with sneakers or wedding gown with flip flops look is sloppy.  If you’re iffy in heels, prepare for the inevitable by adding cushioned insoles to your footwear.  And if you know your dogs are going to bark that much,  please opt for a sparkly kitten heel or ballet flat instead (and have your evening-wear hemmed appropriately). 

Ladies, beauty doesn’t mean sacrificing your toes.  Hammertoes and bunions definitely aren’t the business.  But wearing sneakers and flip flops definitely affects your posture and carriage; in an evening gown you should look like you’re floating or gliding, not stomping and schlepping around.   

Sigh.  At least she wasn’t committing this fashion crime.

Image courtesy of Getty Images

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