I Love My: Nude Pumps

‘Parade’ pump by BCBGeneration, $89.99

Ladies, there’s nothing like a buff or beige pump to lengthen the leg. What I also love about a nude pump is that as a neutral accessory, it’s very versatile.  So whether you’re wearing neon, pastel, a primary color or basic black, this shoe will complement your ensemble.  My best practice is to keep a couple of pairs: a strappy sandal to wear with sundresses, jumpsuits and shorts and my current love: a closed-toe platform in a cashew-colored snakeskin.  The animal print gives it visual interest, and the covered platform and stiletto heel will give your legs a wow factor!

Of course, skintones vary and thankfully so do the options.  It’s very easy nowadays to find a shoe that will flatter your complexion in a toasted almond, beige, tan and so forth.  Make it a must-have for your collection.

P.S. if you find your pair is a little too tight, be sure to stretch it so that you don’t injure your feet.  Your local shoe repair can do this, or you can try what I did: a shoe stretcher!  It’s a wooden insert with a screw you turn to widen it.  Mine (okay, the one I borrowed from my mother) is cedar and can be slipped into either the right or the left shoe.  The stretcher is strategically perforated; it has a plastic nodule (or “ortho plug”) you can remove and place in key spots where your tootsies need the most relief. It works like a charm!

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Recommended Reading: ‘Why You’re Not Married…Yet’

Single readers: don’t you just love those well-meaning (okay, nosy) people who love to come up and ask “WHEN are YOU going to get married?” As if there aren’t a million plus other ways to spend your life and time productively? Nothing against marriage (ahem, I’m all about marriages and weddings) but the firing squad questioning gets old. However, if you’re interested in reflecting personally on why you aren’t married, Tracy McMillan’s latest book (which grew out of her wildly popular Huffington Post piece about the same topic) may help.

In Why You’re Not Married…Yet: The Straight Talk You Need to Get the Relationship You Deserve, the thrice-divorced McMillan shares the wisdom she’s gained through her own life experiences, and in an often-funny, totally no-nonsense way helps the hapless and hopeless narrow down and address their personal issues. Whether you are hoping to find Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now, the ten chapters in this book aim to help you face the ways you may be sabotaging healthy relationships with suggested solutions for how to change. She also shares her observations on male behavior, and in a big sisterly way, shares the information people around you wish you knew about your own antics. (Like maybe you’re selfish, co-dependent, or you need to address your inner Amy Winehouse.)

As McMillan noted in her HuffPost piece, “I believe every woman who wants to can find a great partner. You’re just going to need to get rid of the idea that marriage will make you happy. It won’t. Once the initial high wears off, you’ll just be you, except with twice as much laundry.” So don’t expect this book to hand you a magic coupon and MapQuest directions for the perfect husband. But it may give you the tools to be a better person, which may lead to being a better mate.

You can also catch McMillan on the upcoming NBC reality show Ready for Love, in which she will play matchmaker for three bachelors in search of their true loves.

You’re welcome, Alexis

Images via Amazon and TracyMcMillan.com

Love That: Yay! Life! Magnets

As seen in O Magazine, June 2012 in The World According to Gayle:

These colorful and cheerful magnets are too cute.  My favorite is the Yay! Big Hair!”

The higher the hair, the closer to God, honey.

There is a Yay! magnet for just about any situation or interest you can think of (wine, pay day, bacon, etc.), and they go for $3.50 a pop.

Image via Yay! Life!

Recommended Reading: Women from the Ankle Down

From Ferragamo’s humble beginnings to Dorothy’s ruby slippers, from Wonder Woman’s boots to the shoe envy created by the latest Louboutin creation (with a good measure of Carrie Bradshaw’s Manolo habit mixed in), Rachelle Bergstein illuminates the social history of shoes in Women from the Ankle Down: the Story of Shoes and How They Define Us. Witty and captivating, she shares how design innovations and trends have coincided with social change.  More than a mere fashion choice, shoes have come to signify personal empowerment and economic freedom.  Jane Fonda helped lead a fitness craze with a pair of Reebok Freestyles (which, by the way, are back in style); Gwen Stefani and Courtney Love helped change the perception of women in music in wearing pairs of Mary Janes.  Men aren’t left out; Bergstein also looks at how Vans, Chuck Taylors Doc Martens transformed the scene, and she even devotes a chapter to Tony Manero’s towering platforms in Saturday Night Fever.

My “shoe confession”?  As I sit writing this in my red Italian suede flats from J.Crew, I still believe one shoe can change your life. Hey, it worked for Cinderella!

Image via RachelleBergstein.com

Sneak Peek at ‘Steel Magnolias’ Remake

SCDD reported a few months ago that the classic tearjerker was being remade for Lifetime with an all-black cast; now here’s your chance to see the trailer. 

Click on the image above to view the new cast’s roles, and click HERE to view the trailer.

Ummm…yeah…I’m going to withold my comments until the full-length movie is released.

Your thoughts?

Images via wegotkidz.com

Happy 75th Anniversary, Ray-Ban!

Break out your freshest Aviators and Wayfarers: Ray-Ban is turning 75 this year!  To celebrate, they’ve launched the Ambermatic capsule collection, featuring their classic Aviators (the Shooter and the Outdoorsman) with photochromatic yellow lenses which darken as the temperature increases and light brightens.  Produced under the slogan “Legends Never Hide,” these limited-edition sunnies (only 18,000 pairs were made) can be yours for $210, and can be purchased at select Ray-Ban stores and Sunglass Huts, as well as on the website.

Image via Ray-Ban

Best and Worst Dressed at the 2012 BET Awards

You knew it was coming.

Best dressed goes to Taraji P. Henson in bright turquoise, Rocsi Diaz  in a nude bedazzled number (and that “new boo” glow from toting around with Eddie Murphy), Selita Ebanks giving us FASHION in an embellished short dress with black overlay (it’s a risk but me likey!) and Tamia Hill in a classy and understated black evening gown.  Good to see her back on the scene. I also loved Elle Varner’s entire ensemble and two snaps: Mariah Carey is looking every inch the diva.  WORK!

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Worst dressed? Whew! Tyga in that leather t-shirt (no sir!), Porscha Coleman’s thirsty sartorial salute to Latoya Jackson, Kenya Moore’s pageant look (those days are over, boo), and Lala Anthony’s homage to I Dream of Jeannie. Was a wardrobe change not in the budget for her?  Regina King and Tatiana Ali, I expected a lot more from you.  Boom Kat (Laurieann Gibson) has officially gone to the dark side. 2 Chainz is taking over for Bootsy Collins, and Rick Ross just looks ridic.  Chante Moore, your tribute to Donna Summer was on point but must you look like a cougar on the prowl? You might want to check with Tamia’s stylist.  And take Nicki Minaj with you.

I’m done.  Y’all can look for pics of Kimye and Blue Ivy’s parents elsewhere.

To Have and To BHLDN

You didn’t think we’d let June slip by without an ode to the most popular wedding month of all, did you? Pish posh! And because we don’t like anything boring and ordinary, we dreamed up a wedding wardrobe worthy of only the most daring, most imaginative bride, using the lovely pieces at BHLDN.com, a division of Anthropologie.  The clothing, footwear, and accessories featured on the website invite brides (and those who hope to be, one day) to dream away.

Our vision is inspired by brides who throw caution to the wind and let their personality shine through.  This fantasy bride skips a ball gown or body-conscious fit and flare for her big day, choosing something short and chic instead.  Yoana Baraschi’s Arabesque embroidered silk organza sheath ($300) or Tracy Reese’s bell-sleeved ‘Persephone’ shift  ($400)let her show off her buff-colored Beverly Feldman ‘Côte de Blancs’ peep toes ($220).   She carries the Bountiful Bliss clutch by St. Erasmus ($425) in one hand and Jihan Zencirli’s Geronimo! Balloons in the other ($180 for 2).

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And after the festivities are over? No run-of-the-mill, farewell suit for our bride.  She’s headed to a farflung location for her honeymoon, perhaps to the French Riviera.  This navy and white knit macrame Leeward jacket and short suit by Orla Kiely ($425 for the jacket; $315 for the shorts) is perfect.  Bon voyage!

P.S. This savvy bride doesn’t come home facing a mountain of thank-you notes to be written.  She consults Something New: The Bride’s Complete Guide to Writing Thank You Notes by chic sisters Emily Wood Smith and Rachel Wood Daniels!

All images via BHLDN

LOVE That! Oui brooch by Jennifer Loiselle

Oui, oui!   Sometimes, life just needs more “yes”…this gold mirror brooch is perfect for days when “no” is not an option.

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Images via etsy.com

You take the good, you take the bad…

True story: when I was about seven, I wanted to be Tootie on the Facts of Life.  Remember when she was President of Jermaine Jackson’s fan club?!

Okay, so I’m not seven anymore (and there are so many things going on in that first video, starting with what Jermaine Jackson actually used to look like and his bedazzled outfit! And Tootie’s Members Only jacket! And that road manager’s tight jeans and hairline!).  But wouldn’t it be amazing to go through life on roller skates the way she used to?  Okay, for the two of you who haven’t now decided I’m a raving lunatic, I saw these old school skates with fun multi-colored wheels at C. Wonder.  At $75, all they need is a pair of pompoms and bells laced through them!  If I could get away with it, I’d roller skate around downtown in them.  It’d make the workday a little more interesting, no?

Or maybe I’d just save them for a roller disco night out.

In any case, everyone’s closet needs that one whimsical item that makes you smile on the worst days.  These skates remind me to keep it moving, no matter what.

XOXO, Alexis

Image via cwonder.com

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