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…as soon as my Mama and Daddy see themselves on the interweb and then call me to put me on restriction.

In the meantime, please join me in wishing my parents the happiest of anniversaries!

Mother and Daddy – for everything you are, everything you’ve selflessly sacrificed for our family and everything you’ve taught me about the existence of unconditional love and its insistence on triumphing over any odds, circumstances or imperfections…to two of the most beautiful (and STYLISH!) people I know (okay, I’m biased)…thank you…wishing you many more years of dancing, together.

Love always plus infinity, Alexis

King Bey. HBO. February 16.

Will you be watching? I know I’m going to be all up in the tv!

“Power is not given to you. You have to take it. You’re playing a part in a much bigger show. And…that’s what life is.”

– Beyonce, Life is but a Dream

HERE’S one of my all-time favorite performances from Mrs. Carter, and HERE’S the brand new release from Destiny’s Children.

Strike. Dance. Rise.

“The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.”
― Martin Luther King Jr.

Mark your calendars and join One Billion Rising on February 14, 2013 as we rise to protest violence against women around the world. Local efforts are underway and more details will follow; in the meantime, learn more about why I’m rising HERE.

Who’s standing with me?

Images via One Billion Rising

Best and worst dressed: The Golden Globes

Yay: J. Lo’s white-haute lace fantasy by Zuhair Murad! Kerry Washington in blush Miu Miu! And Nicole Richie in baby blue Naeem Khan!

Not impressed: Halle Berry in printed Versace and Eva Longoria’s “Look at me!” slit, by Pucci.

Nay: Amy Poehler’s shirtless Stella McCartney tuxedo suit, Gabby Douglas’ unfortunate wig/ill-fitting gown combination and Nene Leakes doing her best Oprah impression (GlamMa? Not in this outfit.)

Your thoughts?

In other news, The Carrie Diaries airs on the CW tonight. I live for Carrie Bradshaw, but I think I’ll pass (here’s why).

So, this happened.

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Actually, it happened yesterday, but I’m still tossing sequins! It’s not every day that Lady O’s network tweets me!

Now, about that reality show deal and O column…hey, you have not because you ask not!

Say what? You aren’t following @SameChicSouth on Twitter? Then you need to get your life, darling!

The look for less: Olivia Pope’s ‘Scandal’ sheath

Have I mentioned my obsession with Scandal before? No? Well, from the plot to the characters to the fashion, I’m definitely a gladiator!  And as such, I’ll be tuning in to find out What the Huck and Who Shot Fitz when Scandal returns to ABC tonight at 9 PM.

In the meantime, I’m in love with Liv’s ivory and lace confection of a dress as seen in the ‘Happy Birthday Mr. President’ cliffhanger. The Michael Kors ‘Cady’ sheath is simple and elegant, with its wide black lace sash and ladylike length. It’s also sold out, darlings.  However, you (and I) can recreate the look with this lovely Tahari ‘Jess’ sleeveless crepe dress, featuring a black lace applique at the bust (which carries over to the back of the dress). It’s available at Belk, Dillard’s and on Zappos.com.

Hint, hint.

For more on dressing Olivia Pope, click HERE.

Images via ABC, Lyst and Dillard’s

Wait a minute.

I believe ‘Girls Run the World,’ and I love to Party’…but do you mean to tell me the same person who reportedly appears on the cover of next month’s GQ in what my grandmother would call “drawers” and 25% of a tee shirt is the SAME person who will be singing the National Anthem at the President’s inauguration on January 21st?

I know this is her year, with a Super Bowl performance, an HBO documentary, an insane Pepsi deal AND new music on the way. I respect her hustle and her talent, and I let her slide one time – but Baddie Bey: please, put on some clothes!

After all: Blue Ivy, Malia, Sasha and the OMG Girlz (pictured above) are watching.

*Gets off soapbox*

The Bridal Mingle is this Sunday!

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Ladies, did your significant other just put a ring on it? Looking for tips on getting the best out of those all-important engagement and wedding photos? Or maybe you’re in search of a wedding consultant who can make yours an event to remember? Then join Lynsey Weatherspoon Photography and Elite Engagements for The Bridal Mingle this Sunday, January 13 at the Phoenix Building!
“Brides will not only meet the Lynsey Weatherspoon and Elite Engagement team, but they can meet [their] suggested hair stylist, makeup artist, and wardrobe stylist. This event is not only meant for you to meet and greet with these amazing people, but to help everyone look even more amazing at their engagement session and on their wedding day!” – The Bridal Mingle

One lucky bride will win a free engagement session! RSVP by January 9th; register for your FREE ticket HERE, and click HERE to enter the giveaway (you must be present to win!).

Go Bama!

Come on, darlings…surely you saw this one coming!

While we wait for the Crimson Tide to take on Notre Dame’s Fighting Irish tonight, we are swooning over JP Cricket’s absolutely divine collegiate slippers. In velvet, suede and linen, they are embroidered with the college of your choice’s logo! Perfect for that alumni dinner or reunion soiree.  These shoes are perfect for strolling the Quad or heading to a tailgate, and are suitable for all sporting events.  Founder and CEO Susan Meyer assures me “The all leather bottom is a real shoe, and actually the velvet is quite durable as well as the suede.  We just brush them off with a soft bristle brush.”

If collegiate designs are not your cup of tea, the slippers are offered in sport or monogram versions, and custom designs are available as well.

And if you’re watching tonight, why not responsibly enjoy a Roll Tide?

You’ve got to be seen…in emerald green

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The color gods have spoken: PANTONE 17-5641 Emerald, a lively, radiant, lush green, is the Color of the Year for 2013.

From Pantone.com: “Emerald, a vivid verdant green, enhances our sense of well-being further by inspiring insight as well as promoting balance and harmony.

Most often associated with brilliant, precious gemstones, the perception of Emerald is sophisticated and luxurious. Since antiquity, this luminous, magnificent hue has been the color of beauty and new life in many cultures and religions. Also the color of growth, renewal and prosperity, no other color conveys regeneration more than green. For centuries, many countries have chosen green to represent healing and unity.

“The most abundant hue in nature, the human eye sees more green than any other color in the spectrum,” said Leatrice Eiseman, executive director of the Pantone Color Institute®. “As it has throughout history, multifaceted Emerald continues to sparkle and fascinate. Symbolically, Emerald brings a sense of clarity, renewal and rejuvenation, which is so important in today’s complex world. This powerful and universally-appealing tone translates easily to both fashion and home interiors.”

Who’s ready to inject this sophisticated hue into their wardrobes? I certainly am…and I’m loving J. Crew’s hothouse floral chiffon blouse, with its lush color and vivid pattern.  This top is listed as “bright aqua” but whatever: find a green that flatters your complexion (some tones make me look ill!). Paired with dark denim and leopard flats for play, or a sleek pencil skirt, black tights and pumps for business and I’m feeling like I just stepped out of Oz.

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