First Person Fabulous: Jessica Coates

Jessica Coates

Birmingham wife (to L.J. Coates) and mother (to Nadia, age 7 and Zion, age 5) Jessica Coates works as a Human Resources Coordinator at Startley General Contractors and promotes personal fitness as a Zumba instructor, all while looking fabulous. 

On her personal style and beauty essentials: I like conservative, feminine clothes that last.  I’m not into trends. And I can’t live without Dove soap and my mascara.

Her worst fashion moment:  I don’t know what possessed me to wear a ponytail on the top of my head fanned out [during junior high]. I would roll my ponytail every night, and the next morning take the [pink sponge rollers] out. I might have a side bang or a swooped bang and I was on! It was dreadful. 

Do’s and Dont’s? If you’re [not feeling confident], DO have an arched brow, clean, manicured nails and a nice gloss. There’s something about being polished that can help how you feel about your outfit.

DON’T settle for any trend or outfit that you aren’t comfortable with. I don’t care who comes out with what, the Kardashians or Beyonce. If Jessica’s not comfortable, Jessica’s not wearing it.

On her advocacy work:  I became a Court-Appointed Special Advocate for Jefferson County in 2004.  We’re the eyes and ears of family court; we interview everyone in any type of child abuse or neglect case and attend hearings. It’s strictly voluntary; we’re only concerned with the best interests of the child. It’s been an eye-opening experience.  We definitely need more people giving kids a voice.

[As the mother of] a special needs child I dove head-first into researching all I could [about her son’s condition]. We are lacking a lot of resources here. I [work] with Children’s Rehab Services [and] I sit on the board of Mission Hugs, which raises money to send special needs kids to the two facilities [which provide care to special needs children] until they can start school.

Zion’s disease [Infantile Neuroaxanal Dystrophy] is so rare – there are only 12 known cases – that I have to stay on top of the research.  A lot of parents don’t have the tools and the resources, don’t get second opinions and don’t fight for things just because they are told ‘No’ the first time.

What motivates her? If I am not well, I will not be able to work, be able be a good mom or wife. It’s important that I look good, feel good and am good overall.

I’m motivated to keep on doing what I have to do because there are innocent little people in my life that I’m responsible for. On my worst day, my son – who cannot talk or walk- will laugh and it [reminds me] that I have so much to live for. That he still has a smile on his face motivates me to take it one day at a time. 

What IS Zumba?  Zumba is a Latin-inspired aerobics program which started in Miami about ten years ago. It works the full body and is a core cardio program.

 On how she got involved:  My [YMCA] boot camp teacher asked “Have you ever thought about teaching anything at the gym?” She really opened my mind to think about doing it. Out of all the programs I went to, I was happiest at Zumba. It captured my attention because it was new and different. I love doing do it; I’m passionate about it. Once I started teaching at the Y downtown, I knew it was something I should have been doing all along.

 The most surprising thing she’s learned: No matter the age, the gender, the sex, the race, everybody is consumed with their outer body. From men, to little elderly ladies to college girls with perfect bodies…we all share that.

SCDD recently caught one of Jessica’s high energy Zumba classes at the downtown YWCA, where the focus was about having fun and breaking a sweat at one’s own pace.  The participants had so much fun, they forgot they were actually exercising!   Jessica is currently teaching Zumba every Thursday at 6 PM at the Veranda Building/Park Place Apartments.  Want to ditch the work out and join the party? For more information, click here.

Images courtesy of Jessica Coates

Relax, Relate, & Release at Purify Wellness & Spa!

Purify Wellness & Spa is offering a fabulous deal through Living Social today!  If you need a little “me” time, you need to take advantage of this 24-hour special.  The spa is featuring an hour-long Swedish massage ($35),  hydrotherapy treatment ($39) or body wrap ($70).  This is the perfect splurge for yourself, and makes a luxurious and thoughtful gift as well (hint, hint).

From the website: step into a  “serene environment in which to relax, rejuvenate, and refresh your body, mind, and spirit.  This luxurious wellness spa is the perfect antidote to the stresses and strains of today’s hectic lifestyle. Take a deep breath, leaving the outside world behind as you enter a world of serenity.”

What are you waiting for???

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This scene from The Wiz is hands down one of the most stylish scenes in movie history EVER.  

Don’t miss Quincy Jones’ cameo!  Video courtesy of YouTube

White Haute: Joan Smalls for V Magazine

Fashion Flashback: Salt-N-Pepa

The asymmetrical hair! The kente cloth kufis! Enough gold to feed a third world country!  But fabulous, nonetheless.  Salt-N-Pepa blazed a trail on the airwaves with their brash lyrics and in fashion with their door knocker earrings, leggings, leather and overall B-Girl chic. Hot, Cool & Vicious, indeed.

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We Love a Man Who…

…knows when, where, and how to wear a pocket square without looking pretentious.  Bonus points if he can produce a starched, white handkerchief from his coat pocket at the right moment.  Extra credit if it’s Irish linen and monogrammed.  Swoon.

Excuse us while we have a Kanye moment...

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Listen Up: Watch the Throne or The Carter IV?

 Same Chic Different Day caught up with music blogger A Kid Named Curt for his take on the Jay-Z and Kanye collabo Watch the Throne  and Weezy’s The Carter IV.  His recommendation?

AKNC:  “Watch The Throne > Carter IV. We never heard something like WTT b4; it’s a mixture of American Gangster & My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy Carter IV is a continuation of what we hear from Wayne & his “commercial” music.  Once he dropped [the] No Ceilings mixtape… he didn’t get better… he’s been steady since.”

SCDD:  What do you make of the beef about the Beyonce reference? As to who has more money?

AKNC:  I don’t… Birdman started it all last year with the “who has more money”   competition and Jay-Z just responded accordingly…I’m over rap beefs. That type of competition I don’t care for especially when they are three-time collaborators…it’s not like they never worked on music together. The Wayne response was clever yet totally disrespectful cause he also is a two-time collaborator… sounds to me someone is bitter…Watch The Throne.

Well, there you have it.  For more hot beats and insightful music commentary, check out more from A Kid Named Curt at his Selective Hearing blog.

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What’s Wrong with this Picture?

"How Dreadful! A Fashion Show with No Fashions...."

I’ll tell you, in case it’s not immediately clear.

Ladies, if you are going to wear the shoe, COMMIT to it.  Buy some gel insoles and put bandaids on your heels, if you must.  But for the love of God keep your shoes on in public!

And I just don’t know what to say about the American Apparel  meet Solid Gold bandeau bra Sheree is wearing.  At New York Fashion Week.

Ladies, you are too fabulous for this! Do better!

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Haute or Not? Pi Nappa Kappa

In cased you missed it, Leola Anifowoshe has founded Pi Nappa Kappa, a sorority for women with natural hair.  The group is tied to Anifowoshe’s Natural Healthy Hair Society and not any college or university.  Membership simply requires that one sign a pledge which supports diversity and promotes  a “culture of respect.”  The controversial group, which Anifowoshe claims is all about “sisterhood,” has outraged some African-American members of traditional Greek organizations.   Our take is that PNK’s nomenclature is simply a marketing gimmick designed to grab attention among the many individuals looking to capitalize on the natural hair phenomenon.  While we agree with their mission, we’ll pass on pledging. 

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See and Be Seen at Fashiontini!

Birmingham’s most fashionable people as well as members of the fashion industry will connect at FASHIONTINI on September 21 at The H Bar, located in the Hotel Highland at Five Points South.  This cocktail mixer will salute up and coming local designer Brian Moore of B.Moe Apparel and JamaicaBama…you don’t want to miss it!  And check out our interview with Mr. Moore himself over at urbanham.com!

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