In which I win a prize from Oprah…

There’s almost nothing that can compare to seeing this message pop up in your Twitter feed…

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unless it’s seeing the actual package on your doorstep! Stay tuned!

*I would just like to point out that there is now ONE degree of separation between Ms. Winfrey and me. Thank you, Adam Glassman!

You can buy anything on the Internet.

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Ask Alexis: Finders Keepers

Q: I’m loving Jersey Belle’s style! Where can I find the super cute graphic sweatshirt she wore on last week’s “Secrets of the South” episode? – Bama Belle

A: Bama Belle, here comes the boom! (See what I did there?) Birmingham’s latest reality star Jaime Primak Sullivan’s pop art French terry sweatshirt (pictured in part above) looks super similar to the one from Target’s previous 3.1 Phillip Lim collaboration last fall, which originally sold for $29.99 but is no longer in stores. However, I suggest you search for it on eBay. Happy shopping!

Sidebar: Are you watching Jersey Belle, which airs tonight at 9 PM? I kind of like it; I admire Jaime’s outspoken personality!

Images via Target and Bravo

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I’m Still #FedUp

Just kidding!

I’m pleased (and pleasantly surprised) to say I completed the Fed Up Challenge! This process has improved my relationship with food, and increased my will power and self-awareness as well. I’ve learned to be better informed about what I’m eating and more conscious of the effect certain foods have on my body so that I make better choices for myself going forward.

There was no weight loss goal attached to this, but I lost six pounds and can comfortably fit one size smaller than I was wearing (and which may or may not have required prayers and Spanx before). My energy levels are through the roof: after receiving a good night’s sleep, I wake up refreshed and ready to get moving (which almost never happened prior to the challenge). I’ve felt real motivation to exercise – and have enough energy to actually do it! – so I’ve been walking a mile each morning, and got in four last Sunday alone.

Although I did experience weird cravings, I was never really hungry during the challenge unless I waited too long between meals. Thoughtful planning at the grocery store and before dining out were required; however, once I learned to stay on the perimeter of stores and to choose lean proteins and veggies at restaurants, I was fine. Once I realized how many empty calories and how much sugar I was overloading my body with, I quit soda cold turkey; water and 100% fruit juice have replaced it. And I can tell my taste buds have changed: fruit tastes sweeter, and my sweet tooth for cookies and cupcakes has seriously diminished.

I don’t really miss baked goods or the added sugars in dips, convenience meals, condiments or white bread and pasta, which I also avoided. I won’t say that I’ll never have refined sugar again, but I will definitely be more careful about how much I enjoy itand how often. (As it stands, today is National Donut Day, and I don’t even want one; I’m still eating abiding by the challenge’s guidelines in my meals today, and plan to indefinitely.) But I might have to make sure one of my cousins isn’t camped out at Krispy Kreme in Atlanta.)

If you’re looking for a way to reset your body, I encourage you to try sign up for the Fed Up Challenge. Having the camaraderie and support of my family members really helped, and I am so glad my aunt got us to do this. I’m looking forward to seeing the results of this change as the year progresses.

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Ground-breaking Model, restaurateur, and decorator B. Smith shares Alzheimer’s battle with CBS.

 

 

 

 

 

 

No ma’am.

Rihanna accepts CFDA Icon of the Year Award in a gown too sheer to post here.

Rihanna accepts CFDA Fashion Icon of the Year Award in an Adam Selman gown too sheer to post here.

I get that “fashion is [your] defense mechanism,” Rihanna. I feel that way sometimes when I put on something no one else would wear, or when I’m dressing to improve my mood.

I get that you’re the darling of designers, (including Adam Selman, who designed your Swarovski-encrusted gown) and that your look at the CFDA Awards last night channeled Josephine Baker. It reminded me more of another over-exposed star, who would’ve turned 88 this week (if she’d lived past 36).

I won’t speculate about life in the limelight for Rihanna, but I suspect this look was more about maintaining her “bad girl” image and titillating the public (and keeping her name in bold print), rather than raging against the machine of fame. And that’s sad.

This isn’t about body shame inherited from the first woman to run around naked, either. I love my body enough to keep it reasonably covered. I get objectified enough wearing clothes; exposing myself wouldn’t make me feel stronger, braver or more empowered. But that’s just me.

There’s no defense for turning up on anyone’s red carpet nearly naked. What exactly does that prove? Is that the next wave of fashion: no clothes at all?

If so, I heard about that trend a long time ago. It’s a well-known fairy tale about exposing the intentions and convictions of others, not just one’s rear end. The look was a fail then, and it’s a fail now.

P.S. To any parents: please get your daughters together now before next year’s prom season. “Prombat” was bad enough.

Image via Timothy A. Cleary/AFP/Getty

Dress like you mean it.

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Don’t let this be you.

Are you ready for that upcoming interview, date, social occasion or vacation? Does your look desperately need a shot in the armoire? Contact Alexis for personal shopping, style advice and closet reorganization today!

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Summer essential: straw handbag

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Yes, darlings: you need one (or two) in your style arsenal.  I love these, because they’re a great way to add visual interest to your wardrobe and are a super easy way to switch it up from your usual leather tote or purse.  Whether you keep it neutral, add a pop of color, or go wild with a funky print or feminine floral option, straw and rattan clutches and totes are a summer essential!

These need not be expensive; you can find them at a variety of price points in vintage boutiques, on vacation (such as at the Straw Market and beaucoup street vendors in the Bahamas), at big box locations like Target, or even on Etsy and eBay (I could get lost looking at them. Seriously. I saw about 15 that I NEED.).

Worried about what to carry it with? Don’t be.  These go everywhere, with everything: from your shorts and capris to your maxis and sheaths.  Don’t be afraid to accessorize your soft summer seersuckers or silks with a rattan clutch; mixing and matching is what will make your outfit more interesting.

Pictured: Tory Burch chunky straw clutch, Target Mossimo straw tote in black and cream, Target Mossimo straw tote in multicolor, Tory Burch Beachy Norah bucket tote in flame red, and Tory Burch Metallic Stacked “T” tote.  The tote with multicolor pom poms (originally sold at Target) is one my dad found for me at Dirt Cheap for under $15! Which proves you really CAN shop everywhere.

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