‘American Tapestry’ author to visit Birmingham June 25

From the Birmingham Public Library:

“Birmingham Bound: Writers and Writing from the Birmingham Public Library Archives Presents Rachel Swarns

New York Times correspondent Rachel Swarns will discuss her book American Tapestry. This family saga is a remarkable, quintessentially American story—a journey from slavery to the White House in five generations. Yet, until now, little has been reported on the First Lady’s roots. Using the collections of the Birmingham Public Library Archives and many other sources, American Tapestry traces the complex and fascinating tale of Michelle Obama’s ancestors, a history that the First Lady did not even know herself.  Books will be available for purchase and signing. 

American Tapestry: The Story of the Black, White and Multiracial Ancestors of Michelle Obama was released June 19 by Amistad. 

Interested in researching your roots? Swarns’ website has links to helpful resources such as the National Archives, Family Search and DNA testing.

Toni Morrison takes readers ‘Home’

Several years ago, I watched Toni Morrison on HBO’s The Blacklist, which featured groundbreaking and influential African-Americans recounting their experiences in the world.  I remember (because I wrote them down), her words then: 

“Writing is the only free place; it’s the only place where I’m not doing what somebody else wants or asks or needs. Writing is mine. So [after] winning the Nobel Prize, suddenly I’m in a different league – not just out there in the world but in my head. That sort of rivalry with oneself – that is not self-generated but generated outside. The necessity [is] for me to make sure my work [is] not somebody else’s version of what I should be writing about.                                               

You know perfectly well that you’re pulling from the rest of the world of books. But what you want to make is this one little place, like the facet of a diamond. Just one little shape. And that’s where you live, and that’s yours.”

With her latest offering, Morrison polishes that diamond to a high shine and holds it up for her audience to admire.

At a narrow 150 or so pages, readers may be deceived into believing the Nobel Prize winner’s latest is an easy read.  But the story of Frank Money – a young Korean war veteran who returns to his rural home in order to rescue his younger sister – grips you from its opening pages to the conclusion. 

Frank’s odyssey – in which he saves his sister while saving his own war-ravaged self – addresses what NPR describes as the  “sickening abominations routinely inflicted on African-Americans: unsafe medical experiments, exclusion from public restrooms, [and] forced gladiatorlike knife fights for the amusement of betting spectators.”

Morrison pulls no punches, and her beautiful, lyrical prose cast a spell over me.  I could not put this book down.

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Recommended Reading: Lara Spencer’s I Brake for Yard Sales

If you haven’t checked out a good yard sale, garage sale or antique mall*, you simply haven’t lived, darling.  Savvy bargainistas know that one woman’s junque is another’s treasure, and that you can rack up on some serious deals for your home and wardrobe.  Want “blue-blood style on a blue-collar budget”? Then you need to read this.

Good Morning America coanchor Lara Spencer gives readers the scoop on navigating auctions, estate sales, thrift stores, flea markets and the like with her new book I Brake for Yard Sales. Spencer is an experienced bargain shopper and moonlights as an interior designer and antiques dealer; she even redecorated Kathy Griffin’s California pad.

So, what do you need to get started? A good eye, patience, and a plan.  Spencer’s book is an informative resource to help you hone your high wattage taste and identify how to salvage those much-loved treasures.  She includes helpful hints such as estate sale etiquette, the do’s and don’ts of haggling, insights from fellow flea marketer Jonathan Adler and designers to look for during your search.

Ready to hit the sales? Check out estatesales.net for listings in your area.  And locally, I’ve found great deals at Hanna Antiques (jewelry AND furniture!).

*I draw the line at dumpster diving.  But to each her own.

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Have you entered our HAUTE H&M Giveaway?  What are you waiting for?

Recommended Reading: The Frugalista Files

Are you Fabulous And Broke?  If you’re living the champagne life on a Chek soda budget and swimming in bills you’re struggling to pay, you should read Natalie P. McNeal’s The Frugalista Files for tips on trimming the fat from your budget (and attacking any personal debt head on). 

McNeal details her ambitious efforts to curtail unnecessary shopping, beauty services and expensive dinners and nights out in order to get a handle on her budget (and take a bite out of her student loan and other debts).  A “no-buy” month, careful planning and confessional blogging via her then-employer helped her make a personal and professional change.  Did living frugal mean no frills or treats whatsoever?  Not at all.  With a few adjustments, McNeal was still able to travel, eat out and look good with less damage to her bottom line.  How’d she do on knocking out her debts? You’ll have to read the book to find out.

For more on Natalie and the “frugal side of fabulous”, check out thefrugalista.com!

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Come out for a fun night benefiting a great cause! Join the UAB Minority Health Research Center’s Young Professional Board at their 4th Annual Casino Royale on June 1!

Recommended Reading: Vanessa & Helen Williams’ You Have No Idea

Mother-daughter relationships can be fraught with tension, full of shared clothes and closeness, or somewhere in between as the years pass.  Vanessa L. Williams and her mother Helen recount theirs with laughter and candor in the new release You Have No Idea And no – honestly – we never have an idea of what it’s like to grow up in another person’s skin, but the Williams ladies give us a peek into their lives by addressing the turbulent teen years, those scandalous photographs that cost Vanessa her historic Miss America crown, the struggle to overcome past hurts and MUCH more.   Both women’s strong will, no nonsense attitude, frankness and wit are a delight.  This book is a lovely, touching read; the duo show us how to survive controversy, loss and upheaval with style.  

Reading it made me reflect on my relationship with my own mother,  and also made me appreciate her sacrifices for me all the more.  It can be difficult to see our parents as individuals with their own desires and needs, and hard to see how a child’s growing independence can strain a relationship.  Although I’m not yet a parent, this book gave me even more empathy for the tremendous responsibilities of those who are. 

The Williams Family

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Recommended Reading: Mishna Wolff’s ‘I’m Down’

I’m Down is the poignant and extremely funny memoir of Mishna Wolff.  (How eye-catching is that cover?!)  What’s it like to grow up with a Buddhist hippie mother and a pot-growing father  – who totally believes he’s Black, “strutting around with a short perm, a Cosby-esqe sweater, gold chains and a Kangol – even though he is actually White?  Ms. Wolff’s memoir examines her childhood in Seattle (and takes on the idea of race and identity), with often hilarious results. 

She manages to describe an awkward, outsider, cornrow-wearing childhood in a way that is endearing (navigating reduced lunch at her private school and her parents’ shortcomings); her family is poor and she is often hungry, but Wolff comes away feeling that she’s better off than some of her more privileged classmates.  Though her relationship with her parents (and her stepmother) is often troubling and disappointing, Ms. Wolff prevails and finds her place in the world.  The book leaves the reader wanting to know more about what happens to the Wolff clan long after reaching the last page. 

Thanks to M. Zeno for the recommendation!

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The Long Song/Andrea Levy

This is not your usual slave narrative. The main character has her own version of the “truth”  and the island lilt in her retelling of historical events is unmistakable.  Andrea Levy’s book tells a brutal tale but manages to have moments of humor and also candidly reveals the color complex in the Afro-Caribbean community.  This was an entertaining read.

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Recommended Reading: Danielle McGuire’s At the Dark End of the Street

At the Dark End of the Street: Black Women, Rape and Resistance/Danielle L. McGuire

Since it’s Women’s History Month, I thought I’d suggest a book that highlights women making history (which is pretty chic, no?). 

If you think you’ve read it all about the civil rights movement or its foot soldiers, think again. Danielle McGuire’s research uncovers the unsung role of women in the movement, born of their prescient need for protest and the ownership of their own bodies in the Jim Crow South.  Her work details the abduction and rape of Abbeville, Alabama’s Recy Taylor and places the Montgomery Bus Boycott and ensuing civil rights movement in an entirely new context.  As a Publishers Weekly review notes, McGuire “foregrounds black women’s experiences [of abuse] as prime movers of the grassroots movement.” I found this book to be heart-rending and eye-opening; it’s a MUST READ for mature readers.

Mrs. Recy Taylor

Note: Mrs. Taylor received an official apology from the Abbeville mayor last March, one from Alabama lawmakers last April, and visited the White House to meet President Obama last June. 

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Recommended Reading: Michele Norris’ The Grace of Silence

The Grace of Silence: A Memoir/Michele Norris

NPR journalist Michele Norris examines the painful effects of the civil rights era through the lens of her parents’ silence about it.  She uncovers family secrets (her father’s shooting by a white policeman in Birmingham after returning home from WWII and her grandmother’s turn as a traveling Aunt Jemima for Quaker Oats) with, well, grace. Loved that she wrote about Birmingham and also that she included insightful comments from UAB’s Dr. Horace Huntley.

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Recommended Reading: Mikki Taylor’s Commander in Chic

From the beautiful photography to the warm commentary to the priceless “Mikki-isms”, this book is a style resource to have at hand.  Celebrating the effortless style of FLOTUS Michelle Obama and jam-packed with Ms. Taylor’s expertise from years as Essence ‘s final-word beauty editor, Commander in Chic was such a great read and wealth of information on building one’s personal style that I couldn’t put it down…it was more like having a one-on-one conversation with a style-savvy friend!

As Ms. Taylor notes, “At the end of the day, style in the broad stroke is about being on purpose.  It’s about being comfortable in your skin and not following the trends but setting them.  Finally, it’s about being your most bold, empowered self and using that awareness to color your world–from your inner and outer beauty to your fashion sensibility, from the love that you share to the hand you lend in service to others.  It’s about showing up ready to stand and deliver and not only looking the part, but being just the woman for the opportunity at hand.  That’s what being a “commander in chic” is all about.  And we, like Michelle Obama, are just the women to do so.”

Whatever your politics are, who can’t agree with that?  Fab ones, I loved this book so much that not only did I purchase one for myself, I’m giving a copy away!  So tell me how you “keep it chic”: how do you express your personal style (and I don’t care if you shop the Salvation Army or Neiman Marcus)?  Leave a comment below between now and December 31,  2011 and a copy could be yours!

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